Nobody Puts Baby in the Corner! Proper Body Mechanics for Parents

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By  Melinda Fontaine, DPT

Having a baby is like running a marathon with your pelvic floor and pelvic girdle muscles. Did you know that:

  • 65% of women who had low back or pelvic girdle pain during pregnancy reported persitent symptoms 14 months after delivery1
  • 24% of women still experience pain with sex 18 months postpartum3

Leaking urine, low back and pelvic girdle pain, pain with sex, and compromised abdominal wall integrity are common issues that many mom’s encounter after childbirth. The good news is that these complications don’t have to be permanent!  Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy,  home exercises, and lifestyle modifications can help tremendously. In this week’s blog, pelvic floor physical therapist, and new mom, Melinda Fontaine breaks down how new mom’s can care for their newborns while still conserving their health.

Recently, I had the opportunity to be a guest speaker for the MuirMommies group at John Muir Health in Walnut Creek.  As an alumnus of the group I was elated to be back, and to meet with the attentive parents who gathered to discuss a myriad of questions. Most were interested in learning how to better care for their children. However, on that day I wanted to turn the tables, and talk about how parents can take care of themselves. Predominately, I wanted to equip parents with tools to prevent common injuries that are often associated with the daily activities of caring for a baby.

It is estimated that 67% of women experience back pain postpartum, and the most associated factor with back pain is heavy work. It’s important to note that  “heavy work”  can also include repetitive tasks such as lifting a baby, breastfeeding, or bottle feeding as well as heavy lifting. When a newborn comes home, he or she spends the majority of their day eating, sleeping, and dirtying diapers. So let’s focus on how to take care of Baby’s needs without compromising your own well being. Whether breastfeeding or bottle feeding, caregivers should always be aware of their posture,bringing Baby close to their body and finding a position that allows them to sit (or stand or lie) with a straight spine and relaxed arms.  Be wary of really plush seats that mold you into a forward bent position.  I highly recommend propping Baby on a pillow for feeding. Additionally, some pillows have belts to keep them close to you, and I find this very helpful to keep Baby from sinking into a gap between you and the pillow. If using a bottle, try to keep your wrist as straight as possible to avoid carpal tunnel syndrome. It is natural to look down at your baby during feeding and marvel at the wonder that is this tiny little human in your arms.  My suggestion for when you do so is to avoid sticking your head way out in front of you.  Keep your head towards the back of your chair.  Yes, this means you will have a double chin, but Baby won’t mind, and it will help prevent your neck from getting sore (All these same rules apply if you are pumping).




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It is also beneficial to be cognizant of how you lean over a crib to pick up your newborn. Unfortunately, most cribs have a railing that prevents you from being close enough to the mattress to use proper body mechanics when lifting your baby. Because of this, it is extremely important to do all that you can to help save your back. There are a few cribs on the market that have sides which open like doors (ie. Gertie) or fold down a little at the top (ie. Foundations). When lifting Baby into or out of the crib, be sure to get yourself as close to the crib as possible.  Hold Baby as close to your body as possible and bend at your hips while keeping your back straight. Activating your abdominal muscles can also help support your back. To protect your thumbs, keep them glued to the rest of your hand. I prefer to lift baby with one hand under the head and neck and one under the buttocks. You can also lift Baby by grasping around the torso (once your baby has decent head control).  Furthermore, as long as it is safe for Baby, and he or she can’t climb out  of the crib, keep the crib mattress high. A higher mattress means less bending and leaning!  The same principle applies to changing diapers and using a higher changing surface will be  better for your back.

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Orbit Baby

OK, Baby is now fed, rested, changed, and you’re ready to hit the town! I know there is probably a crying fit, some baby vomit, and another diaper change first, but bear with me here.  When getting  Baby into the car seat, it’s important to be sure to do so without bending or twisting your spine too much.  As always, brace with your abdominal muscles and keep Baby close; avoid holding Baby at an arm’s length away from you.  Get as close to the car seat as possible when putting Baby into the car seat. If your car seat is in a middle seat, sit in the car facing the door with Baby on your lap, turn your whole body to face forward, and then put Baby in the seat next to you.  (Orbit Baby even makes a car seat the swivels.)  After securing Baby’s racing harness, hop in the driver’s seat and take off.  Your seat will try to make you slouch, but you can fight this by sitting up straight, sticking your butt and lower back as far towards the seat as you can get it, adding a lumbar pillow if needed, and pulling your head back all the way to the headrest.  When you have reached your destination, reverse the directions above to get Baby out of the car.  At this point, it becomes a choose-your own-adventure endeavor. Option A means you’ve opted to use expert body mechanics to load Baby into a stroller by keeping Baby close to your body, bracing with your abdominal muscles, and getting low and close to the stroller. You’ll then push Baby around to your heart’s content while holding your head up high and your wrists straight to avoid carpal tunnel syndrome. Option B is strapping Baby to yourself using a carrier.  I recommend carriers that go over both shoulders and around the waist to evenly distribute the weight.  Many people are concerned about the carriers that hold Baby facing you with their legs spread wide.  Fear not, This is actually a good position for Baby’s legs.  Babies’ hip joints are still developing and this frog-legged position provides the most congruency between the bones, which is actually good for developing hips.  You may notice that neither of these options included balancing Baby on one of your hips as we often find ourselves doing.  This balancing act should not be an option because it stresses your body unevenly and can lead to hip, back, neck, shoulder and other pains.

After a successful outing, you make it safely back home with Baby and a huge sense of accomplishment.  Now you are just one bath (and a few feedings and at least one change of clothes) away from bedtime! The best place to bathe Baby is the kitchen sink.  I like the kitchen sink  because the kitchen faucet is typically the highest faucet in your home, so you don’t have to bend over to wash Baby.  Don’t worry about the kitchen sink being uncomfortable for baby, there are a number of bathtubs or padded contraptions that you can use in your sink to make it nicer if you desire. If your sink is not amenable to bathing, or when Baby gets too big, you will have to move to the adult tub.  To avoid having to bend over the side of the tub to scrub behind your little one’s ears, go ahead and get in the tub if possible.  This allows you to get really close to have good body mechanics, plus you’ll have a good time to bond  while splashing in the water.  If you cannot get into the bathtub, then get as close as you can to the tub and kneel on a padded mat or sit on a stool.

After bathtime, proceed with your bedtime routine.  Maybe you give Baby a little massage with some lotion or sing “Head, shoulders, knees and toes” or recite Goodnight Moon for the upteenth time today, and then  get Baby down to sleep.  Before you collapse into bed, for a few hours of much needed rest, I have one more set of instructions.  Gently, put yourself to bed.  You deserve it!  Brush your teeth and put on your pajamas.  Sit on the side of your bed. As you lift your legs up onto the bed, use your arms to guide your upper body to the bed so that you are lying on your side.  Roll onto your back or your other side keeping your body as straight as a log.  Remember logs don’t twist, so your hips and shoulders should be in alignment at all times.  Try placing a pillow under your knees if you are a back sleeper or between your knees if you are a side sleeper to keep your spine in alignment through the night.  When it is time to get out of bed in the morning, or in the middle of the night, reverse these instructions.  This way of getting in and out of bed, known as the log roll, protects your hard working back so that you can wake up feeling refreshed and ready to start again.

I hope you are able to try some of these tips to keep yourself in good health while raising healthy children!

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Melinda Fontaine, DPT


BioPictures_0003_Layer 9Melinda is a native of Concord, California and is part of our Berkeley team. Melinda earned her bachelor’s degree in exercise biology from UC Davis and her doctorate in physical therapy from Simmons College in Boston. When she’s not at PHRC, you’ll find her either dashing around in her running shoes or cooking up delectable meals in her kitchen. She’s famous for her killer baked chimichangas and her inability to stick to a recipe.




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